For some reason, I am just in a really mad mood today about how my husband and I got engaged. It makes no sense because tomorrow will be nine months since we have been married and we got engaged in August 2018. His proposal was absolutely nothing like what I wanted. He proposed to me two days after his younger brother. I knew his brother was getting engaged and days before my husband made a joke about proposing and I said there was no way I would want to get engaged right after his brother. I wanted my engagement to be special and not all close to anyone else that we knew which is why I said I never wanted to get engaged for a holiday. I also had told him that if/when he would propose I wanted it to be just the two of us. He had my parents, my siblings, my grandparents, his brother, his brother's fiancee, his cousin, and his cousin's girl there so it wasn't private at all. Throughout the planning process when people would ask about engagement it was always mentioned that his brother got engaged the same weekend which I absolutely hate. I really have no clue why it is bothering me today of all days since it has been a 1.5 years since we got engaged. I guess I just feel like my engagement was overshadowed by his brother's. I think part of the problem is that we really want to have a baby, but are struggling to have one. I keep seeing people announce that they are having a baby and I'm happy for them, but sad for myself. I also keep waiting for my brother, sister or his brother to announce they are having a baby even though none of them are actively trying whereas we have been trying since we got married. I don't know how to handle all these feelings. I don't feel like I can talk to my husband about it because he doesn't seem to understand.
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