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Savvy March 2021

i don’t have the money for a dress

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Ariella, on May 14, 2020 at 1:44 AM

Is there a place that gives financial assistance for weddings/dresses?

My heart is heavy because I can’t afford a dress. My family isn’t poor but, I just know they aren’t planning to give me more than $500 to help out with my wedding overall, as my grandfather is very tight budgeted. To start, I have a very big bust, 34-36 H. I am not opposed to buying a used wedding dress it’s just that it’s so hard to find someone who has my style, as well as bust, that I could even fit into. The typical price range of a dress of my liking will be 1,000-2,000. My fiancé will make it happen if I wanted him to, I just don’t want to sink us into a hole in the beginning of our marriage. Plus he will be paying for the rest of our wedding most likely. I know I will probably have to make a sacrifice and wear something I’m not in love with but, cheap. I’m sure all of you know that a dress makes your wedding, Ive always dreamt of it and now that it’s here I just want to cry and really not have a wedding, just use it as vacation money or something, as I don’t want to waste the money on something that I’m even going to like. I know I’m not the only one who’s going/gone through something like this. Any advice, tips and ideas please share!

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Brittany · on May 14, 2020 at 11:33 AM
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I agree with PP about maybe renting or seeing what's out there. If you want an online option for a preowned wedding dress https://www.preownedweddingdresses.com/used-wedding-dresses is really good! I also know there is a lot of sales that go on during the year and especially right now. Maybe looking into that?? Facebook market place too I have heard might be a good place as well. You never know! I hope this helps!!
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Kelly · on May 14, 2020 at 11:37 AM
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Azazie has wedding dresses for under $200 and they do custom sizing!
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Hanna · on May 14, 2020 at 1:07 PM
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I agree with the people who said to look into local consignment shops and second hand wedding dresses. Whatever you do, I would NOT recommended renting a wedding dress in this situation due to your unusual bust size (I am an H cup myself and I understand what you're going through). Whatever dress you do end up with, I can't imagine that you will be able to get away without altering the bust. I think that a second hand dress or a place like David's Bridal might be your best bet. Just make sure to leave room in your budget for alterations due to your bust size.
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Savvy March 2021
Ariella · on May 14, 2020 at 5:39 PM
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Okay thanks for the advice!! That definitely makes sense!
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Savvy March 2021
Ariella · on May 14, 2020 at 5:39 PM
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I’ll look into it thank you!
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Savvy March 2021
Ariella · on May 14, 2020 at 5:40 PM
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I’ll look into that website! Renting probably won’t be an option for me and I’ve looked on Facebook but honestly it’s just outdated dresses for the most part lol. Thank you!
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Ariella · on May 14, 2020 at 5:41 PM
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Makes sense! Thanks!
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Ariella · on May 14, 2020 at 5:42 PM
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Due to my size I most likely won’t be able to rent, thanks thought!
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Ariella · on May 14, 2020 at 5:42 PM
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I’ll look into it, thank you!
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Lauren · on May 14, 2020 at 5:44 PM
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I went to a place that has off the rack/sample dresses. They were so much less expensive for high quality, never worn before dresses. David’s bridal also has mega sales, and has some really nice things.
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Shakia · on May 15, 2020 at 9:23 AM
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Check out preownedweddingdresses.com they are usually pretty affordable. They have a lot of designer gowns.
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Lynnie · on May 15, 2020 at 10:17 AM
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Seconding Kathryn's suggestion for Torrid!! I'm plus size with a large chest and their clothing has accurate sizing info and fits well - and their wedding dresses range from $200-$400. ASOS also has bridal gowns in the same price ranges with extended sizing!
Lulus, Modcloth, and Missguided also have a lot of affordable bridal options!
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Beginner June 2021
Melissa · on May 15, 2020 at 10:19 AM
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What style are you looking for
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Martha · on May 15, 2020 at 11:27 AM
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I greatly agree, I have set me a budget max of 500 for my own dress and depending on the venue we choose either traditional or a park location I may just order of a website like Lulu's. Renting would save you $ down the road as well.
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Savvy March 2021
Ariella · on May 17, 2020 at 11:21 AM
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Mermaid or princess!!
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Melissa · on May 17, 2020 at 11:52 AM
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Hi. I have a ball gown /princess type dress you can have. It’s about 20 years old but it’s been preserved. I have this one picture right now on my phone but I can get you more
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