I've had a tough few months. My fiance's brother, after telling him that he was going to be in the wedding, went AWOL for 2 whole months. Stepbrothers knew where he went and they refused to tell anyone else. People began questioning where he was, started police reports, they freaked out. Still don't know much, and he hasn't called to say he's okay.
Also just found out that their stepfather might be going to prison for theft and being under the influence of meth. His parents have been keeping secrets from us, probably not to hurt us. But we found out through his best friend and newspaper.
My mom is still pushing me to let my great aunt, who has treated our family horribly for several years, throw me a wedding shower AND invite her to the wedding.
And now she's pushing her personal opinion on me about certain people I wanted in my wedding party.
Stuff like this makes me want to say "forget it" and just elope, with my sister and his best friend only. I've had it.