So I know we talk about music, shoes, DIY, dresses, and everything other little detail which I love hearing and seeing. But what about Vows? Are you writing your own? Pullin the paper out your bra/pocket? Picked special ones from websites or making up your own. Are you using unity candles? Or sand? I am interested in what everyone has/is doing so I can get an idea. I only been to one wedding back in May so I am inexperienced at variety and originality. Thanks to all who answer.