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Dedicated October 2011

I cry all the time! anyone else feeling stressed?

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Danielle, on September 1, 2011 at 12:08 AM

As of right now, I have 38 days to go, and I'm acting crazy! I finally received my surfboard "guest book" in the mail that I have been waiting weeks for. I break a nail trying to open the box and I cried....seriously?! I hear a love song on the radio and I cry. And no, I don't even have the PMS excuse! School starts this week and I'm so overstressed and overemotional. Poor FH doesn't know what to do with me. He just feels bad that "I'm not enjoying this time." I want to, but there are so many little details to worry about (for the wedding and preparing for the first day of school) that its driving me nuts. Anyone else feel the same?

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Amy · on September 5, 2011 at 1:51 AM
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Right there with you. I had such a nervous breakdown the other day I didn't even want to get married, not the marry my FH part, but the whole wedding part. I called my Maid of Honor and vented and she was able to hear me and talk me off the ledge. I also try to get sleep and give myself permission to say, "It will be okay", and "set it aside for now". And my FH is trying really hard to just listen and not respond.
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Dedicated April 1991
Lisa · on September 5, 2011 at 2:28 AM
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What each do you is feeling is normal. None of us generally will ever be asked to host, plan and pay for such a large Event, any other time in our lives. And the best part, we have absolutly no training or clue what we are doing and are allways second guessing ourselves.
It get's better.. You'll each have to trust me on this one, the day after the Wedding was one of the best days of my life, no stress, no Wedding questions.Just my husband and I. Total Peace. The only other time I have ever felt this was seconds after each of my girls were born and announced "healthy".
Just hang in there and remember we are all here for each other,, good luck!!!
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