How to word wedding invitation when my parents and grandmother are paying for the wedding?!

“Together with their families” is what most people use.

Agreed, “together with their families...” would work best here.

Either “together with their families” or just don’t mention families at all. My husband doesn’t have the best relationship with some of his relatives so honestly it felt a little “fake” to be referencing “families” in our invitation, even though my family paid for most of our wedding and his contributed a bit too. We just did “Genevieve & Jason request the pleasure of your company at their wedding”

If your parents and grandmother are essentially paying for all of the wedding (Minus any small details, etc.) , then it should be the traditional wording of ‘Mr. And Mrs. xyz and grandmother abc, cordially invite you to the wedding of....


If you and your fiancé are also shouldering a substantial portion then you can say, together with her parents and grandparent, you and fiancé Invite you to celebrate....

You could put their names and then "invite you to celebrate the wedding of" and then you and FH names!

Together with their families will work.

Formal invites should include actual names.

Parents, Mr. & Mrs. X and Grandparent Mrs. Y cordially invite you to the wedding of...

Now, if you and your FH are also contributing, then:

Together, with their parents, Mr. & Mrs. X and Grandparent, Mrs Y.

"FHs name and Justine" cordially invite you.....

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If you are being charged per word on invitation, OR having a less formal invitation, then you can always shorten to say, Together with heir parents and grandparent, "FHs name and Justine" invite you....

My FH and I are paying for our own wedding, but both of our adult children and each others future in-laws (parents, siblings) are close and spend time together, so I wanted to give reference towards them, so we chose the wording:

Together with their families, (referencing our moms, children, and siblings)

Dr. XX & Mr. YY

Request the pleasure of your company at the celebration of their marriage...

"Together with their families" is a great one that would offend absolutely no one in either family!