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Just Said Yes April 2015

How to word invitations when bride is divorced?

Amy, on July 28, 2014 at 11:45 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 36

I am looking for creative ideas on how I could word our wedding invitations? We will not be including our parents as we are paying for our own wedding. I am divorced and never changed my name back to my maiden name and would prefer not to have any reminder of my ex around my special day- so I don't...

I am looking for creative ideas on how I could word our wedding invitations? We will not be including our parents as we are paying for our own wedding. I am divorced and never changed my name back to my maiden name and would prefer not to have any reminder of my ex around my special day- so I don't want to use my legal last name. My hubby to be takes pride in his last name and wants it included- so no first name only invites.

Any ideas? Thanks for the help!

36 Comments

  • Brownie
    Super October 2014
    Brownie ·
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    You can seriously still use your maiden name. An invite isn't a legal document...

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  • Munkos
    VIP September 2014
    Munkos ·
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    Are you taking his last name?

    We said "FH and munkos invite you to join them as they become Mr and Mrs. "FH's last name." "

    That could be a way to include his last name an leave out any other names

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  • PunkRockPrincess
    Super September 2015
    PunkRockPrincess ·
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    I am in a similar boat. I am just using my maiden name. People will know what is what because of his name. I am sure they will know it ius me =) otherwise he found another Jessica really fast! Haha

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  • L
    Master February 2015
    LetItSnow ·
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    Amy Jane and Michael John invite you to join them as they become Mr and Mrs Jones...

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  • A
    Just Said Yes April 2015
    Amy ·
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    Yes! Munkos, I love that idea! His name is the only one that matters now. Yes, I am absolutely taking it, that's why I never bothered changing my name back. I wanted to take the name of the man who will be the father of my only children. Thanks everyone!

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  • Kelly King
    Kelly King ·
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    For a second wedding, you may also wish to reflect the nature of the event:

    Please join us

    as we celebrate new beginnings, new dreams and new love

    at the marriage of

    Georgina Claire

    &

    Mr. Stephen Aaron Jones

    Or

    With joy in our hearts, we,

    Georgina

    and

    Stephen

    request the honour of your presence

    as we exchange marriage vows

    and celebrate our new life together

    or, have the invitation come from the children;

    Mr. Malachi Smith

    requests the honor of your presence

    at the marriage of his mother

    Georgina

    To

    Stephen Aaron Jones

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  • Candice
    Just Said Yes September 2016
    Candice ·
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    I was curious about this too. i'm glad it was asked so i could get my answer Smiley smile

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  • Wendy Means
    Wendy Means ·
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    Avoid invitations all together and do a wedding website.Personalized, Customized Wedding Website

    http://www.uniquelyyoumt.com/personalized-customized-wedding-websites/

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  • S
    Just Said Yes October 2019
    Susan ·
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    What if a bride uses her maiden name with a hyphen to her EXH's name?? Smith-Jones

    Does anyone feel this would be appropriate? I want to honor my maiden name of which some know me by. However, I was married for quite a while and have an adult child so many know me by my married name.

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  • Andrea
    Super May 2020
    Andrea ·
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    I am divorced and never changed my last name. We are also paying for the wedding ourselves. I plan on using my maiden name on our invitations. My family and friends know me by both last names it’s only co workers really that know me by my ex husbands name. I don’t think there’s a wrong answer. It’s your wedding, and your invitation, refer to yourself however you like.
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  • Hannah
    Just Said Yes August 2020
    Hannah ·
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    I love it 😍
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  • J
    January 2013
    JODI ·
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    Use your maiden name on the invitation. But use your legal name on the return address on the outside envelope.


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  • Laura
    Super September 2026
    Laura ·
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    You are kindly invited
    to the wedding of
    Amy MarietoMr. John S. Roberts
    This avoids your last name and indicates your name will be changing. *I'm divorced, so I understand.
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  • Laura
    Super September 2026
    Laura ·
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    Amy Marie
    to
    Mr. John S. Roberts
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  • Laura
    Super September 2026
    Laura ·
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    Amy Marie
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    Mr. John S. Roberts


    I like this because both parts of your name that will be changing are omitted and yet it makes clear who you're becoming.
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  • Katharine
    Expert July 2021
    Katharine ·
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    Is it bad that none of this ever even occurred to me question?

    Our invites had both of our first/last names, but then I never carried my ex-husband's last name to begin with so that helped. I would have just put my maiden name on the invites if I did have my ex-husband's name though.

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