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How to tell guests about your covid elopement?

Adrianna, on June 22, 2020 at 5:20 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 5

COVID brides who eloped in secret on your original wedding date and still plan on having a wedding celebration later this year or next. How do you plan on telling your guests that you got legally married?

We've mailed our change the date cards but did not indicate anything about us eloping. I want my guests to know that our elopement on June 20 was super simple. Pastor, one witness, and our wedding photographer, but my husband says we don't have to justify our actions to anyone. During our elopement, we did not wear our respective wedding attire, we did not say our personal vows, we did not even exchange rings as we don't even have our wedding rings yet! Those are all things we will do on our rescheduled date on October 16, 2020 (our wedding celebration) when we publicly declare our love and our marriage in front of our family and friends. I just don't want our guests to think they missed out on anything, you know? I guess I just worry that people will judge us, or they may not want to come to our wedding anymore. Also, I still plan on having a bridal shower in September since I never got to have mine because of COVID, so I don't know what that will look like or what people will think now that I'm already married.

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Latest activity by Lynnie, on June 24, 2020 at 4:50 PM
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    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I don't think anyone would judge you either, especially given the circumstances of this pandemic where many couples had to elope anyway

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    Dedicated June 2020
    Adrianna ·
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    Yes, that's true! I know I keep reading other discussion about this, and I think I just need to keep hearing the validation on that part. It's hard, I'm so hard on myself.

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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    When you send invitations, you should indicate that you’re already married. You can say something like “___ and ___ were married in a private ceremony on ___. Please join us for a celebration of marriage on ___.” I understand that you didn’t wear your dress or do anything elaborate, but the most important part is getting married and your should know that they aren’t actually witnessing your union.
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    Adrianna ·
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    That's a great format to use. Thank you so much!

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    Caytlyn shared great wording! Lots of 2020 couples are doing this, so your guests should certainly understand.

    I also think that's a much more understated way to break the news instead of sending out separate elopement announcements!

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