Skip to main content

Post content has been hidden

To unblock this content, please click here

Brittany
Expert September 2020

How to make my mom feel special? Suggestions please?

Brittany, on October 15, 2019 at 11:45 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 9
My mom and dad split when I was 10 (I’m 28) they both remarried pretty quickly so I have a step mom who I’m very very close to. I’ve included both of them in planning and my mom
expressed she’d really like something just for us. My initial thought was she’d be the one to help me get ready and be the first one to see me in my dress the day of and then I’d do a reveal with my bridesmaids. Does that sound special enough? Do you have any other ideas? Thank you!

9 Comments

Latest activity by Casey, on October 15, 2019 at 7:14 PM
  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    You could take photos of just the two of you also
    • Reply
  • Brittany
    Expert September 2020
    Brittany ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    View Quoted Comment
    Yes I have this on my photo list as well!
    • Reply
  • Sarah
    Master September 2019
    Sarah ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    Could you go with your mom to get your nails done just the two of you?
    • Reply
  • Brittany
    Expert September 2020
    Brittany ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    View Quoted Comment
    I could but I have a feeling she’s implying on the wedding day.. plus I still want to keep some things as group activities
    • Reply
  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    Could she do something with just you & her, like dress shopping or catering tastings or something? Could she say something at the rehearsal dinner? Maybe you both could wear something matching (necklace, bracelet, etc.) at the wedding?

    • Reply
  • V
    Champion July 2019
    Veronica ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    My mom got ready with us. I bought her a robe in gray/silver which is her favorite color and it worked perfectly since silver was one of our accent colors. Since I got my bridesmaids robes, I thought my mom should have one too. We also bought gifts for both sets of parents. My mom and his mom got corsages. My husband's soon to be step-mother didn't get a corsage, but he barely knows her so he didn't feel the need to include her. You could also include his mom and your mom in some type of unity ceremony or do a rose ceremony.
    • Reply
  • M
    Savvy May 2020
    Michelle ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    Would you consider a dance? I'm tinkering with the idea of a mother-daughter dance at the reception, to a song she used to sing me as a child. My mom's never had a real wedding of her own, and I wanted her to feel special too.
    • Reply
  • Dayna
    Expert September 2021
    Dayna ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content

    I am having both my parents walk me down the aisle. Of course, whether or not that is an option would really depend on how well your parents get along together and how you feel about straying from tradition. My mom will also join me in getting ready including getting her hair and makeup done with me and BMs.

    If you want something additional, you could consider a special dance with her, asking her to give a speech, or making her a really special gift.

    • Reply
  • C
    Super December 2021
    Casey ·
    • Flag
    • Hide content
    My mother is walking me down the aisle and dancing with me. Perhaps you could have both your parents walk you down? Or a special dance?
    • Reply

You voted for . Add a comment 👇

×

Related articles

WeddingWire celebrates love ...and so does everyone on our site! Learn more

Groups

WeddingWire article topics