How to list divorced parents

I am listing my divorced parents as:

Ms. Jane Doe

Mr. John Doe

I want to make sure my mom is comfortable when she sees her name. Addressing her as "Mrs." (even though she never went back to her maiden name) seems inappropriate for where she is in her life.

Yes, widows are still assumed to be titled "Mrs.".

My parents divorced 6 years ago and my dad remarried. I didn't list them at all! I didn't want to worry about any one's feelings. Our invite just said 'together with their families' - DH's parents are divorced too and his mom remarried.

The programs did list my parents, but only first and last names. added my dad's wife & DH's mom's husband just to keep the peace. But thats all I did to acknowledge the families and our situation.

Ms. is the appropriate title for a divorced mother who has not remarried. Mrs. for a widowed mother.

For divorced parents, list them on separate lines in the invitation and programs (mother first). They also get announced separately. If either is dating and you (and family feel comfortable), the announcement of the BP into the reception would be "mother of the bride, Ms. Jane Doe accompanied by Mr. xxx." Then, "father of the bride, Mr. John Doe accompanied by Ms. xxx." They can also walk in just by themselves, if that's better and less painful.

One other note - tell your photographer about all this ahead of time... You don't want them assuming your parents are still together and posing them that way in the pictures. If it's amicable, just put mom on one side and dad on the other with you as a buffer. If not, do two separate sets of photographs. Have a side conversation before the wedding with your photographer about how you want to handle this and it will be much smoother on wedding day.