I am wondering if any of you have any advice on how to incorporate my stepmom into my wedding? I have known her since I was in elementary school and she is absolutely wonderful. However, my stepmom and mother absolutely hate each other. My stepmom is also super worried about "over-stepping" and taking over the traditional mom role and is being super respectful about it. However, I really want to find a way to include her in a sentimental moment or something that makes her feel really special, because she is to me. I would like to do this without hurting my mom who I also love so much.
Do any of you have any creative ideas on something special I could do with my stepmom? She is walking down the aisle and she is getting ready with me, I just want to do more. She planned my whole bridal shower and cried a little after saying how she feels so important and I would like her to feel that way on the actual wedding day. Please let me know what you think!