Hi Wedding Wire!
I’m having trouble deciding on how to include my future SIL in our wedding. I had originally planned on having 6 bridesmaids. Two of whom would be FH sister and a different FSIL, both of whom I am very close with and spend a lot of time with.
I am not close with this SIL in question. They live 2 hours away from us, and to be honest, she can be rude and talk down to me as if I am a child (even though I am older than her)
I had originally planned on having her as a personal attendant, along with an older niece. But my FH says it would be rude to have one SIL as a bridesmaid and not the other.
I feel I should mention she was just married this past year, and did not include me in any of the wedding despite me being with my fiancé for 3 years at that point, and throwing her a bridal shower out of my own pocket.
Do you think it would be rude to ask her to be a personal attendant? I really don’t want to have to add or remove bridesmaids just to protect her feelings.
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