How to handle it all

Give yourself breaks. Have days where you don't do any wedding planning.

I agree with Melle, definitely take a step back for as many days as you can. I'm only 18 days away and I'm a ball of stress, but I have to give time for myself or I'll go insane. Even if you can't go a full day without wedding planning, set yourself a limit for no more than 1-2 hours a day. Making a list of absolutely everything I have left to do before the wedding (even the small stuff that you don't even think to really put on a todo list) has relaxed me a lot. Seeing it all out in front of me makes me feel like I can actually get it all done, rather than letting it all bounce around in my head.

I certainly have been going through waves of this! We're getting married June 6th then moving out of state by June 30th, and my anxiety has been all OVER the place! I do kickboxing every day at my lunch break and it helps me tremendously. I also will write down all my thoughts in a little black notebook before bed just to get it out so I don't just lay there overthinking. Everything is stressful and expensive, but you'll make it through however you have to!

View Quoted Comment That’s my problem is I have gave myself to many breaks and no I’m a little over a month away and have soooooo much to do. When I get overwhelmed I just stop doing it and then that stresses me out because it’s still not getting done. I think it’s just the money aspect that really gets to me

View Quoted Comment Yeah I definitely have that problem to.. I just let it all keep bouncing everywhere in my head

View Quoted Comment Thank you! I will try to start writing to, that actually might help me

I'm going through this now. Our wedding is on the 22nd and I have SO much to do. I have spent so much money. Work is insane right now too. I'm the only one doing what I do as someone just left. I just got promoted. The company is adding new projects left and right. I have no energy to do anything once I get home. I'm stress eating. I'm probably going to end up getting a cold sore. But.. I keep reminding myself that it will be fine. The big stuff is taken care of. If I don't get to the signs and centerpieces it's not going to ruin the day.


Just remember.. You're getting married!!

View Quoted Comment I feel like we are going through the exact same thing’ my wedding is the 22nd to!