I just would like some advice or comfort or words of wisdom... something!! I don’t want to care but I do! I don’t believe I’m having a Bridal Shower or Bachelorette Party because my MOH is my sister & she is very isolated & to herself. It makes me very sad because this is God willing Once in a Lifetime for Me!
To make a long story short... I was in a previous relationship for over 6 years that didn’t end well & I stayed single for 5 Years due to this. I finally found My Knight in Shining Armor 4 years ago & he proposed 1 years ago. With what I had endured in my past I never thought this day would come. So with that being said..
It just makes me sad to think I won’t get a chance to Celebrate & make memories like I imagined with my girls.
MOH is not a go getter & is a home body. Whenever I have asked her if she had anything in mind because my FMIL, FSIL, Close friends, other bridesmaids have asked me. Her answer has been she doesn’t know because our family members aren’t near us. But I don’t get it because more than 70% of my guest are hear in State. So majority of my girls are here & all have been asking. Idk what to do or if I should say something about it or express my feelings on this matter. I was to the point where I was like whatever & left it alone but then yesterday when I went for a hair appointment for me & my mom, my stylist asked me because she wants to attend too & my mom made a comment like “I don’t really know anything because the MOH is my daughter & we all know how she is, she’s really not a planner.” And here my emotions got stirred up again.
As much as I want to let it go & not pay it any attention I have someone else asking me about it. What should I do? How should I feel? As hard as it has been. Should I just leave it alone?
Thanks in advance.
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