Hello! First let me say I’m sorry for any grammar errors or spelling errors as I am writing this 2 in the morning after a few drinks...
I needed a place to vent and a place to ask for advice on if I should feel as hurt as I do right now...
little background, the Bride to be was my best friend in high school she had a rough life growing up and I was there every step of the way even begging my parents to let her live with us when she became homeless, her and I were inseparable until We graduated she moved to pursue church missions and I moved states for school ( I even changed my graduation trip to visit her in Hawaii) we txted Each other almost everyday after moving away and hung out every summer break..now two years later we both ended up moving back to our home towns and continued right back where we left off hanging out and partying together..
In August her fiancé actually told me first before anyone that he was planning on proposing.. after the proposal and celebrations, she starts asking me to plan her bridal shower and bachelorette party for her! (stupid me thinking this meant I was the maid of honor) .... then a few months pass and I never hear about it again
in February I received the save the date in the mail for June 8th (two days from writing this) and thought it was weird that I didn’t know anything about it if I was in the bridal party. So I send her a txt congratulating her again and she tells me she will invite me to the bridal shower .. and it hit me that I’m not a bridesmaid at all like I’m totally confused on what happened in the time of me planning everything for her to not even being a bridesmaid? So I go to he bridal shower and it’s just bridesmaids, family and ..me when all the fun was over and everyone was leaving she pulled me aside and said she just wanted to give me an extra long hug( maybe this was her saying sorry??)
Also might want to note that my boyfriend is part of the groomsmen if that makes any difference? I’ve known the groom and his friends since elementary school ... I also drunkenly asked the groom a few weeks back why I wasn’t involved and he didn’t know? He told me he actually had too many groomsmen and she was having trouble finding bridesmaids!? So it really makes me feel insignificant and like we aren’t friends anymore .. idk if I should feel upset and ask her why (of course after the wedding and the honeymoon) or if I should just let it go and accept that I’m just not as important to her as she was to me?
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