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Sheila
Savvy August 2015

How to Appropriately Write "No Children allowed" on Invitation

Sheila, on July 31, 2014 at 8:01 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 12

My fiancé and I have decided that we do not want any children at our wedding (except for immediate family, nephews, nieces). How do I write that in the most polite way on the invitation?

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Latest activity by Kristen, on August 1, 2014 at 2:22 PM
  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    Adult reception to follow. Invite specific people, by name, on the rsvp card.

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  • OMW
    Master August 2013
    OMW ·
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    Don't put kids names on the invitations.

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  • Kimberly
    VIP October 2014
    Kimberly ·
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    I've seen "adult only reception to follow". But we chose to put those words on our website. Instead we put "we have reserved ____ seats in your honor" on the RSVP card. I hand wrote 1, 2, etc. so for couples with children, they got a 2. I hoped that made it clear that the children weren't invited.

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    Master October 2013
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    You only address the invitation to the people invited, that's it.

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  • ValZtoB
    Master March 2015
    ValZtoB ·
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    What Celia said!

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  • Elizabeth
    Devoted March 2014
    Elizabeth ·
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    Only address the invitation to those that are invited. That's what we did. No kids at ours - no way!

    We also had it spread by word of mouth that we did not want any children there. We really only had one baby to worry about, so it worked out.

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    Master December 2014
    Melissa ·
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    I put "Respectfully we request this be an adult's only occasion" I don't want kids at my ceremony either so I didn't want to just put adult reception to follow. I also put who was invited on the rsvp card so 1. they get who's invited and 2. so i know who's sending it back to me. (just in case someone decided not to put their name on it)

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  • SharSam14
    Expert August 2014
    SharSam14 ·
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    From what I've seen on previous invitations I've gone, it just says on there,

    "Adults Only Occasion Please" and they specifiy how many are invited and/or the actual name(s) of the people invited so the guest knows exactly what's going on.

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  • Sheila
    Savvy August 2015
    Sheila ·
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    Thanks! These are all very helpful suggestions.

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  • The New Mrs. Pool
    Devoted August 2014
    The New Mrs. Pool ·
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    Adult-only....And I'm VERY comfortable using those words.

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  • Melissa
    Devoted May 2015
    Melissa ·
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    Celia nailed it. If you don't want to use the word Adult on your invites though, the reserved _ seats for you statement is also good.

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  • Kristen
    VIP May 2015
    Kristen ·
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    Dont put the word family anywhere! dont address it to jones family, johnson family, blah blah. celia nailed it! dont use the word family and put adult reception!

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