Hello everyone!
So this has a bonus question at the end but my first question is how to handle family that isn’t invited to your wedding??
Even before the current state of the world I had not planned on inviting an uncle and his wife. We have no relationship and over the last 10 years have been around each other about 1/2 dozen times to which it was really only simple conversations. My cousin that I am close to and is invited to the wedding is also close to the uncle and his wife and she texts me every so often to tell me they KEEP asking about when the wedding is and were worried because they had not received their Save the date back in February when they were sent out. It’s because they didn’t get one! And I know I will have family expecting them to be invited but honestly I feel mostly people want to use my wedding as an impromptu family gathering and that’s not happening.. I don’t even have their phone numbers so it’s not as if I can tell them “hey you’re not on the list” so I guess it’s not a matter of what to do because no matter what they aren’t getting invited, it’s more of a what you all think about it? Or if you had similar situations?
Bonus question: what is the oddest thing you’ve been asked as a bride/groom? Mine is “what do I wear to your wedding” and it’s driving me crazy. I have attended a few weddings in my day and I have never asked what I should wear to it!
Thanks in advance!