How to address an invitation correctly for married gay couple

I would put Mr. First name last name and Mr. first name last name. list the person you are closest to first.

Excellent question, I will be following this....

Go with what Kelsey C put.

Edit: didn't see you said they had the same last name.

What Kelsey said

I did what Kelsey said

I didn't include the Mr. (yes not very good etiquette.. I understand). I put Aaron and Rodger Smith.

I went with - Monsieur's Jack and Harry Smith. Sounds more elegant to me.

Thank you Kelsey! Good suggestion. I also like Monsieur's Jose and Daniel (Last Name). That sounds more formal and appears more to respect their marriage. Thanks @lovin'life!

When FH and I are introduced at our wedding, we're doing Mr. and Mrs. John and Jane Doe. I don't see why the same logic can apply to this situation (Mr. and Mr. John and Bob Doe).

Side note. Do you put the one you're closer to first, or is it alphabetical?

What about Mr (first name of one) & (first name of two) (last name).

I changed my mind. I like Mr. First name & First name Last name better i think....i had separated them before so they could both be Mr.

I am doing Masters John and Bobby Smith.

Misters John and James doe maybe?

@Kelsey and Amanda - This issue with Mr. John and Bob Smith is that Mr. needs some way to be plural. Otherwise you're only giving John the title. Like saying Mr. John and Jane Doe. It implies the second is a child.

I have this same issue, so I am following, but I was planning on putting Mrs. Jane and Mrs. Joan Smith.

ETA- Erase, start over! I just asked FH what he thought. For a opposite sex married couple it is Mr. and Mrs. John Smith, so using that logic for a same sex couple it should be similar, Mr. and Mr. Smith or Mrs. and Mrs. Smith. It becomes complicated when they don't have the same last name. As I type FH is googling. According to the Gay wedding institute and Gay Manners.com you would say Mr. and Mr. or Mrs. and Mrs.

Mr. John and Mr. Jack Smith, with whoever is closer to you first.

Messrs. is technically correct, but who has seen that in daily life?

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Though it is a wedding and weddings are weird so I guess that would work if you are partial to it.

Messrs. John and Jack Smith is how it would read.

Mssrs, is plural misters

I'd do Mssrs. It stands for Monsieurs, and that's an "honorific title".

Eta: it's classic, in many novels addressing lawyers or bachelors. Jane Austen used this. I know it's not "common" but maybe it'll make a comeback now.

Yep, "Messrs." is correct in this case as the plural for "Mr."

"Masters" is for male children so that is definitely not correct.

OriginalLaura - you may want to change your mind on that as you would be indicating that John and Bobby are children.