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Paige
Devoted February 2018

How much time between ceremony and reception?

Paige, on July 13, 2017 at 12:28 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 16

So I'm debating placing time between the ceremony and the reception. Thoughts on this? What is an appropriate amount of time? What is too long? Thanks!

ETA: I am going to get a wedding day of coordinator to take care of the setting up I was worried about. So I won't have time between except for travel time. Any suggestions for a coordinator in San Diego?!

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Latest activity by Malei, on July 13, 2017 at 1:51 PM
  • StPaulGal
    Master July 2017
    StPaulGal ·
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    None. Gaps are extremely rude. You need to host your guests from beginning to end.

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  • Ms.Fox
    VIP May 2018
    Ms.Fox ·
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    What would be the reason for this? If it is an option and not a necessary, don't do it.

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  • A. L.
    Master July 2017
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    Nope. Our ceremony and reception are an hour (and a mile) apart. We're hoping not to leave guests standing around for any more than 5 minutes.

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  • Leah
    VIP July 2017
    Leah ·
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    It's not necessary. We have a stereotypical hour "catholic gap," but if I could have avoided it I would have. But I think with the travel distance and having a receiving line to eat up time afterwards the hour will seem like nothing.

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  • Paige
    Devoted February 2018
    Paige ·
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    How do I make sure I can get my photos taken with everyone, then also make sure the caterers are set up and my guests are greeted? At a home wedding? That's why I asked. Should I hire someone to be there to do this for me?

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  • Ms.Fox
    VIP May 2018
    Ms.Fox ·
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    Um, cocktail hour? And yes, hire help, no one in the party needs to be setting up.

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  • Leah
    VIP July 2017
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    That's why there's a cocktail hour usually....

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  • Paige
    Devoted February 2018
    Paige ·
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    Right I didn't want to ask anyone of my guests or party. Ok thanks! I'll have someone there to attend to those needs and then just have it all flow as one!

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  • Paige
    Devoted February 2018
    Paige ·
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    I've never planned a wedding and have only been to one formal and two others when I was very young. I'm still understanding the set up. Cocktail hour. Got it perfect thank you!

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  • TP2
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    None! We are going to the reception right after the ceremony.

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  • Stephanie
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    My cocktail hour will be about 45-60 minutes, it is just for us to take pictures but we have light food being served and alcohol. My venue (an old stagecoach stop) also has a small museum that will be open during that time.

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  • A. L.
    Master July 2017
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    There is nowhere that a 1-1.5 hour gap is acceptable.

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  • Paige
    Devoted February 2018
    Paige ·
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    I was just unsure thank you everyone! I'm really excited about my FH and my wedding. Tonight we start our marriage classes with my church! EEEEK!

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  • Paige
    Devoted February 2018
    Paige ·
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    @Brandi G that's a great idea. I totally forgot what the professional term was! I was thinking of just a friend of a friend. But a day of coordinator is perfect!

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  • Malei
    Super October 2018
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    Ugh, mine will have at least 4 hours but I feel it can't be helped. The Catholic Church I'm having it at can only hold weddings at 1pm. That's already too late for a lunch and the venue that we wanted can only have receptions at either 11 or 6 (five hour limit). It's pretty common for that to happen here, though. I'm using the time in between that to have our pictures taken somewhere else.

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