One of my bridesmaids keeps trying to push me into having a bunch of add ons in my wedding I don't think is necessary. My venue has a bar that I'm having an open bar for 5 hours. She thinks upon that I need to have a wine slushy truck show up as well that would be an additional $1500. I want only a wedding cake for dessert. She's trying to push I also include a full dessert bar with cookies, macaroons, cake pops, cupcakes, brownies additional to the wedding cake that would be roughly another $1700. She keeps telling me I need a videographer and photo booth when I have a photographer that'd push me an additional $3200. I have the necessities and only the necessities. I have some hor d'oeuvre picked our, but not enough of a selection. I need MORE apparently. I need all the late night snack options.
What are you doing extra for your wedding or have done that you deemed necessary. I don't want anyone bored but I'm already paying a lot for everything. It's overwhelming
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