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Sos0033
VIP September 2017

How much do you tip the bartender (as a guest?)

Sos0033, on May 23, 2017 at 4:21 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 46

Whenever the topic of cash bars comes up, people say "I don't even carry cash, especially at weddings" or "it's rude to make your guests open their wallets." I usually don't carry cash either, but whenever FH and I go to a wedding or any event with an open bar, we carry plenty of cash. This is...

Whenever the topic of cash bars comes up, people say "I don't even carry cash, especially at weddings" or "it's rude to make your guests open their wallets." I usually don't carry cash either, but whenever FH and I go to a wedding or any event with an open bar, we carry plenty of cash. This is because we ALWAYS tip the bartender for every drink (usually $1 if they're just opening a beer or pouring wine, $2 per mixed cocktail). Do other people not do this, or is the guests opening their wallets thing a figure of speech?

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  • Larry
    Expert November 2018
    Larry ·
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    10 at the beginning, 10 at the end. Most bars don't even have too jars you just slide it over to them. It isn't required to tip, its generous.

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  • Melissa
    Master March 2018
    Melissa ·
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    I always tip bartenders as a guest. I was always taught to take out like $5-10 and tip them once with your first drink and it takes care of it for the night. Typically they say it's $1 per drink. I usually tip 10 to be generous since weddings are crazy for bartenders.

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  • Diana
    Dedicated May 2017
    Diana ·
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    I always tip as a guest. When I was the bride, whether or not a guest tipped did not impact what I tipped my vendors.

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  • EngineerInLove
    VIP September 2018
    EngineerInLove ·
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    I usually tip $20 at the beginning of the night for an open bar for both me and FH and that's it.

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  • Addison
    Super June 2017
    Addison ·
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    I usually will leave a large tip once at the beginning of the evening (selfishly, to get better service), but am not sure tipping is the norm. I think it would be rude of a bride and groom to assume the tip is covered by their guests, but they wouldn't be at fault if guests tip on their own.

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  • N
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    For those of you that ASSUME the host is tipping are flat out cheapskates and assholes. Don't assume. Tip those that provide you a service. I always tip a dollar per drink at a wedding.

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