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WiseOwl
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How many times can you BE a bachelorette?

WiseOwl, on August 19, 2015 at 11:58 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 8

So FH and I were discussing bachelor and bachelorette parties this past weekend and we brought up a few family members and friends who are getting married and are having bachelor/bachelorette parties. I mentioned that a couple of the women we know technically aren't bachelorettes. One because she has been divorced twice and is marrying again. FH disagrees with me. He says that she is bachelorette as she is "single."

I thought bachelorette/bachelor is someone who has never been married before. Kind of like when you fill out a document and you have to check your marital status. You check "single" if you've never been married but if you have then you pick one of the other options whether it's Married, Divorced, widowed etc. Can someone clarify this for me?

Oh and btw, I am not trying to be rude to anyone who has been previously married. That is NOT my intention at all.

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Latest activity by Ostrich, on August 19, 2015 at 12:31 PM
  • Laura Marie
    VIP September 2015
    Laura Marie ·
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    Well, wasn't George Clooney considered one of the "most eligible bachelors" until he got married recently? He was divorced before that..so I dunno. I don't know how it's really supposed to work..but I'd say as long as you are single.

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  • Jennifer
    VIP July 2016
    Jennifer ·
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    When I fill out paperwork I always check EITHER single or divorced, and I'm previously married. The first time, my sister was my MoH and was new at the whole thing. She didn't know she should have done something to plan a bachelorette party. I've told my daughter (who's MoH this time) and my sister (who's BM this time) that I don't need one, but I wouldn't get mad if they decided to do it.

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  • Ostrich
    Master April 2016
    Ostrich ·
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    I think you can have infinity as long as you're not actually married

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  • Jeanne
    Master August 2015
    Jeanne ·
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    Technically, a bachelor or bachelorette is someone who has never been married (so even though they called George Clooney that I don't think it's technically correct). However, I think now it is more commonly accepted as just someone who is not currently married. Keep in mind, the term came to be when the divorce rate was lower so that definition probably made more sense.

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    I don't think it really matters, if someone was married before but wants to have another bachelorette then they should! The only thing that wouldn't be cool is if they had lots of bachelorette parties that put a financial strain on people.

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  • Princess Consuela
    Master November 2015
    Princess Consuela ·
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    I always just considered a bachelor a single person. I never thought much about it though!

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  • Kd
    Super February 2024
    Kd ·
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    Wow.... having a "Bachelorette Party" after being divorced twice IS pretty crass! How many times is she going to make people celebrate her?

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  • Ostrich
    Master April 2016
    Ostrich ·
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    At least from my experience, it's not the bride who plans the bachelorette party. So if she has friends that aren't sick of her yet i think it's fine Smiley winking

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