How long after my RSVP deadline should I wait to start contacting people? My RSVP deadline was last Friday, a month before the wedding. And my headcount is due next Wednesday. I recieved about 12 responses last Friday & Saturday. But nothing Monday or today. Should I go ahead? Wait one more day? I'm kinda hoping by some miracle, that they'll just show up magically without chasing anyone down... but I know better.
I guess chasing down less than 20% of RSVPs isn't terrible. Just frustrating.