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Waldy
Devoted October 2020

How long did it take you to find a venue

Waldy, on April 23, 2019 at 7:41 PM

Posted in Wedding Reception 53

Hello there! My fiance and I got engaged at the end of February, went on vacation in March and overall enjoyed our newly engaged status. We started our venue search for ceremony and reception about three weeks ago. We've seen four places so far and haven't loved any of them. We vaguely liked only...

Hello there! My fiance and I got engaged at the end of February, went on vacation in March and overall enjoyed our newly engaged status. We started our venue search for ceremony and reception about three weeks ago. We've seen four places so far and haven't loved any of them. We vaguely liked only one. One place that I was really hopeful for, I HATED and ended up crying when I got home. How long did it take you to find your venue from research to final booking? And how do you know it's the right place? I've seen friends who have been engaged a shorter time than me find and book venues in less than a month. It's been really disheartening. I don't want to search for too long because then my ideal date won't be available. Smiley cry

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  • Anastasia
    Savvy August 2019
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    I spent months researching literally every venue I could find here in NJ. About a year after getting engaged, we looked at 3 places. It was pretty easy for us to choose because we were 100% against having a traditional ballroom wedding and we wanted something in a hotel/very close to one for convenience. We ended up booking the first place we toured about a month after we saw it. My fiance was set on it, so I just agreed because my dream venue is a castle in Italy and that wasn't happening lol

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  • Vicky
    Devoted June 2019
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    We got engaged at the end of September & found our venue in the beginning of November. Our venue that we chose was our third option.
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  • Future Mrs. McCully
    Devoted July 2019
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    I searched online for venues for a day or 2 about two weeks after our engagement. I had scheduled tours at 2 different venues and looked at one on a Saturday and the other on a Sunday and we had our venue booked on Sunday evening.

    We both already had a vision so it wasn't hard for us to narrow down/choose.

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  • Alyssa
    Super September 2019
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    We booked our venue about a month after getting engaged, maybe even less than that. However, we booked so quickly because our ideal date was less than a year away from the time we got engaged. We did probably 3 months worth of research, phone calls, visits, etc. in that time frame so I wouldn't get too disheartened yet!! We looked at 4 venues before picking the one we did. I guess I didn't really get a huge feeling like it was "the one". That feeling has come as we have started doing all the small details and I can finally start to envision the day.

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    It took us 4 months. We toured 5 venues, but looked at venues online so total probably 50 venues!

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  • Jess
    Super September 2019
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    We got engaged in July 2017 and put the deposit on our venue in Nov 2017 for a Sept 2019 Wedding! We only looked at 3 places but the place we ended up choosing we went back to 3 times to ensure it was the perfect location and would fit the amount of people we would be inviting! Now every time I think about the location I get butterflies and am so excited to marry my best friend there in 157 days!

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  • Lauren
    VIP February 2020
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    We booked our venue the day after we got engaged but researched about 50-60 venues before we got engaged. Our venue was the only one we toured because we loved it so much in person! Since we're getting married in February, we needed something completely indoors. It was really hard to find an indoors venue at a reasonable price that could hold around 175 people. We live in Tennessee, and most venues around here are barns or mansions where the ceremony takes place outside. We're, actually, getting married in Alabama. The venue is 1 1/2 hours away but 10 minutes from FH's hometown. My family/friends will just have to travel 2 1/2 hours from my hometown.

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  • Dedicated March 2021
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    Each couple is different, we’ve been engaged since October and I’m still looking around for the perfect venue that speaks out to us. There have been many venues I’ve found great interest in and in the end it was a disappointment! Don’t worry!
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  • Waldy
    Devoted October 2020
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    We're trying to book everything a year and a half in advance, and we have the same issue! Our date is mostly taken. I'm glad it worked out for you. My fiance is already tired of me talking wedding all the time, so hopefully we can find a venue soon so things will chill out! haha

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  • Waldy
    Devoted October 2020
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    Awww, that's good to hear! that you didn't feel like it was 'the one' until you started adding details. that does calm me a bit.

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  • Waldy
    Devoted October 2020
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    Oh wow! this is very helpful!

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  • Pat
    Dedicated July 2020
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    I reached out to 2 venues.. the one I was really interested in contacted first. We went for a tour 5 days later and booked on the spot! We both loved it, and the price couldn’t be beat.
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    Hi! Do you mind if I ask which venues in texas were your top three/which one you chose?
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