So my FH and I have been together for 6.5 years and have been best friends for 13. This whole planning process has me a little sideways. We've chose April 26, 2020 as our wedding date, and we've locked in the venue, we've locked in the photographer, DJ, food/bev, my dress and his suit/kiddo's suit. Flowers have been super difficult for me, going back and forth between real and silk flowers. And then our 1st cake tasting is September 1st. So progress is being made.
Last night though, we have decided to move forth with moving to a new place. (We've been in our current home for 4 years) and it is time for a change. Our current place, the management team has gone down hill and the complex just feels trashy. Our new one, it's new, renovated, beautiful, and only 7 miles from my current place. So excited to start over fresh. But between planning the wedding, working 65 plus hours a week, him work 65-75 plus hours a week, adding in moving/packing, I just feel somewhat stressed. My only day of 'rest' is Sunday and that is designated for wedding 'stuff'/planning. I know everyone tells me to buy a house, but I don't wanna buy until my last name has changed (because paperwork blows) and we are still working on our down payment. [I've seen the process and its way more stressful than the wedding stuff]
Everyday my mind is working and going, almost feels like my off button doesn't work. How do you handle your stress levels and what are you doing to keep yourself calm?!