How formal did you address save the dates?

My STD were formal but regardless I would have done Mr. Mrs. Why not? It doesn’t hurt. Many people don’t seem to do it this way but there is no right or wrong to this.

I also couldn’t imagine addressing my parents guests as Jane Doe, so there’s that too.

My Save The dates were made to look like postcards so I did mine by hand, very informal. I have huge handwriting and the space I had to work with was tiny. People texted me “GOT YOUR SAVE THE DATE, yayyy!”... no one said anything about how they were addressed.
but I used Mr. & Mrs Betzer for couples or The Betzer Family for an entire family.. Mr. Betzer for one person. I will do the invitations the same with the exception of, those single people will have “& guest” added to theirs. I loved my STDs except for I didn’t catch that I said “reception to follow” and then “formal invitation to follow” too close together... that part I try not to look at bc it really irks me lol

The only formality I skipped was with families. Instead of doing Mr. and. Mrs. John Smith and Children, I just did The Smith Family.

I did mine the same way I ended up doing my invites. Not super formal for either.

Save the date

Since I was going to hand address the wedding invitations and with all the wedding addressing formality rules, I practiced on the STDs and too addressed them the same I was going to address the invitations.

Save the dates are informal, so no, it's not "rude" to write them informally. We just did first and last names, no honorifics.

We did,

Mr. John Smith and Mrs. Jane Smith.

I just reviewed normal etiquette for this, but I did wish I would have just done first and last names. For the invites, I would do mr./mrs.

You know your crowd best, and if the event reflects more of a first name feel, totally go for it!

I honestly don't know if my were super formal. We went to Bolivia last year and took a picture in Salar de Uyuni where he was giving me a piggy back ride and that's the one we used for our STD. in the back it says Save the Date for (my name and his name) our date formal invitation to follow and then the wedding website. We got it done in Peru (my home country) so my parents went and got the pearled paper that made it look amazing. We also Just address MR & MRS LAST NAME and their address all normal. We didn't spell out the state

I'm doing formal titles, but only because we are using Minted for everything and that is the way I put them in my address book. It would be a pain to change them! I think either way you do it will be fine, no one will think twice about it.

I did Mr and Mrs since there are no kids allowed to the reception but addressed by name if it was BF and GR living together and family if a married couple with no children.

I did postcards and kept them informal. Debating on whether I want to go formal for the invitations. I probably will at least for older guests.

I was really stressed out around the time we were sending ours and we did them doubling as Christmas cards so I couldn't put them off either, and my FH and I both addressed our "sides". I didn't even think about it, just addressed them as I would normal mail, using first names without titles. He went formal as he was always taught...guess he has nicer manners than I do lol. But anyway I was just happy to get them out and I seriously doubt anyone will mind. Personally when I get mail I check to make sure it's mine, rip it open, and don't give a second thought to the envelope.

When we do our invitations I'll do it the correct, formal way of course.