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FutureMrsJochum
Beginner August 2019

How early is too early to start planning for the wedding?

FutureMrsJochum, on September 18, 2017 at 9:10 PM Posted in Planning 0 10

Hey all! First post! My FI and I are recently engaged as of June & always knew we would wait at least a year before getting married. We wanted to save and not feel rushed through the process, & by that I mean this is our 1st marriage for the both of us & we've been to a total of 5 weddings between the two of us so have no clue where to start! The more I read and learn it feels like I need to book everything right now! Our estimated date is 8/10/19 and some of venues we have looked at are almost totally booked for 2018 & are starting to book for 2019 now, we have our venue options narrowed down to about 5 & have had the big conversations already like colors, style, expectation, budget. We even have our bridal parties picked even though we haven't told them & most of our guest list is written down & organized out (all in 3 months...I'm kinda crazy happy & obsessed that I get to marry him) I guess I am just hoping for a bit of guidance on when we can actually start getting things booked!

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Latest activity by Dani Feigenberg, on October 18, 2017 at 2:12 PM
  • Megan
    Expert June 2018
    Megan ·
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    Budget and venue, since you seem to know a ballpark of guest list. There are some great checklists on here, definitely utilize them. I'm finding them to be super handy. Congratulations!

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  • JerseyGirl
    Master May 2017
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    Follow the checklist on here. Makes it so easy. Since you already have an idea on size and budget I would narrow down your venue. No venue no date. We got engaged mid Feb. by end of August that year I was pretty much done everything except for some small things. (I'm a teacher so I took advantage of the summer). Just be sure about your ideas before you commit so far out. Have read horror stories about people planning far out and then wanting to change colors, venues, etc. we are decisive so that wasn't a concern.

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  • Cathy
    Dedicated October 2018
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    I'm getting married next October and as of this weekend will have everything (DJ, photographer, venue, florist, my dress, tuxes, centerpieces, invitations and save the dates) done. We are working on a baker and just need to order favors and bridesmaids dresses. Got engaged August 2016. I wanted a long engagement as I just finished nursing school in January.

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  • FutureMrsJochum
    Beginner August 2019
    FutureMrsJochum ·
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    Thank you both! I definitely am super excited, I just don't want to get too ahead of myself!

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  • Taylor
    Just Said Yes October 2017
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    Its never to early to start planning. FH and I got engaged in 2015. All within the first couple of months we had our venue, photographer, transportation, ceremony location and bridal party picked out. The earlier the better so this way you can start making payments and getting things organized. Im getting married in 18 days and the only thing we have to worry about are all of the small details!

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  • StitchingBride
    Master October 2014
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    I don't really think it's ever too early to start thinking of vision, budget, and checking out venues at least on line. Venue shopping is very time consuming, you may think that a certain place is the one, and get there and find it very scary. I think having time on your side to find what you want can be a real plus.

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  • Miss2Mrs
    Dedicated October 2017
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    Before he proposes... I say as soon as he pops the question, start planning at your own pace!

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  • Josie
    Savvy March 2018
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    Congratulations to you both! We got engaged NYE and I started planning the very next week for a March, 2018 wedding! Getting started right away had some great advantages - like discounts! I was able to book in advance and take advantage of discounts they offered for doing so. Also, it let me budget so I knew exactly how much per month we needed to save to meet our balance due dates. Lastly, and most importantly, I have really enjoyed the planning process so much because I wasn't rushed and when something (inevitably) went wrong, I still had plenty of time to get it corrected. As we approach the holidays, our wedding is booked, nearly paid for and we can enjoy being engaged and looking forward to the wedding Smiley smile Good luck, have FUN!

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  • bridebarrett4511
    Dedicated November 2018
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    Start with your guest list, budget, and from there find a venue that fits. It definitely isn't too early to book key vendors!

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  • Monica
    Dedicated June 2018
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    Guest list and budget and venue for sure! if you're open to a smaller wedding then go look at dream venues and then invite what you can afford, but if not maybe make your guest list first and then work backwards. I def would wait to pick bridesmaids/groomsmen maybe your MOH if you've been BFFs forever and plan to stay close, I would also wait on your dress until about 9-11 months before because you never know how your body may change. I would also wait on colors and centerpieces because you might change your mind about htat too, but it's okay to start pinning ideas. I booked my photographer and DJ a little over a year in advance and everyone else like 10 months in advance. So really you don't have to worry much until around a little over a year out for the big vendors.

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