So my fiance proposed to me last fall in 2019 and we set the date to fall of 2022 so we could have extra time to plan. Every single time I try to plan or ask for advice from someone (not my fiance or parents, they don't act this way), I always get told: "Why are you planning so early, your wedding isn't even close yet." or "Your wedding is 3 years out, you shouldn't even be planning anything yet." and hearing those things honestly hurt me sometimes. Wedding planning makes me so happy during hard times and gives me something to look forward to no matter how far it is.
Also no, I am not booking anything big yet, I am just pinning ideas and asking questions whenever I need to. So I just want everyone's honest opinion, is it too early for me to plan even a little? or should I wait at least till we get to where it is 2 years away? Please don't be afraid to be honest! Thank you in advance!