The ring my fiancé got me is very beautiful and I do love it. At the same time, I’m in love with a different ring. I knew he was going to propose well before he did bc he didn’t hide it well, so I sent him a link to a ring I really loved and he ended up getting my current engagement ring last minute. He even said he got it the day he proposed, so I know he doesn’t have much attachment to this one. Well, that original ring I found popped up as an ad and when I saw it, my heart swelled. I still want that ring. It’s even cheaper than the one he bought.
On top of that, I asked him a couple weeks ago how he would manage to top my birthday this year bc last year he proposed. And he said he would just buy me another ring. I still love this one and would use it for the engagement photos and everything but to summarize, should I feel bad for asking for a different ring? I know a few people who got a second ring that they picked out. (I know he isn’t upset, I asked him and told him it’s exactly what I want for my birthday, there is nothing else I would want from him.) So my questions are: 1. Should i feel bad for asking for a second ring? 2. Am I a bad fiancé for asking? 3. Has anyone here gotten a second ring and how did you go about it?
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