How did you include your child/children?

We only have one together, she isn't involved at all.

Our 5 year old daughter is a Jr bridesmaid and our son who will be 1 when the wedding is here is going to walk down with him. A Jr groomsmen =)

Our 2 year old daughter will be one of our flower girls.

Our son is 1 1/2 so he is still pretty young. we are not having a bridal party so he is best man/ring bearer/escort lol he will walk both of our mothers down the aisle before my dad and I. during the ceremony we are kind of leaving it up to chance since he is so young we do not know how he will behave at the given time. if he wants to stand with us we will let him otherwise he will sit with the moms. Also during the reception we may do a bride/groom/son dance and I know for sure the first song to get everyone on the dance floor is dedicated to him cuz it is his favorite song to dance too =)

I love all of these! FH's daughter is our flower girl...had a discussion with him last night about how we're involving her in the ceremony and FH thinks being a flower girl is enough. I def. want her to stand with us though! I've been all over the board with how to include her.

My 5 year old daughter is the flower girl and my 7 year old son is the ring bearer.

My 4 year old son is FH's best man and will also be walking me down the aisle with my dad. The plan is for him to cut in on the first dance.

I think we will also get him a small cake with things he likes on it since we will have a wedding cake (for me) and and groom's cake (for FH)

Brandy was not really close with her biological father or (step) dad and didn't really want to start a fight of who was walking her down the aisle, so her son who was 7 at the time walked her down the aisle and handed her off to me...we high fived...it was awesome!

My step daughter will be our flower girl, and our 3 month old will be getting pushed down in a wagon

My 12 year old son is walking me down the isle then standing with FH as a "best man".

@Nikki- wow I think having your son cut in on the first dance is ADORABLE!

Our 2.5 year old is escorting his dad(the groom) down the aisle.

Erin C., I agree with you. They are two separate things - relationship between husband and wife and parents and children.