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Mrs. G
Devoted April 2017

honoring mother of groom

Mrs. G, on July 28, 2016 at 1:48 PM Posted in Planning 0 22

My fiance's mother passed away in 2009. She died instantly from an unexpected heart attack. I want to honor her as I know she would've been a big part of the wedding. He was very close with her. We decided not to do the parent dance because I think it will make him sad. I never did meet her as she died the year before we met. He thinks we met because she wanted us to meet - it was right after her death.

I just want to honor her like do something special in her memory. Anyone have any ideas one what to do for a loved one that passed?

22 Comments

Latest activity by PennyIA, on August 9, 2016 at 7:29 PM
  • Nonna T
    Master April 2014
    Nonna T ·
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    How sweet! In some way, maybe she sent you to him!

    If you have programs, you could mention her there.

    We put flowers in a vase with our parents' names on the altar as well.

    Some people do an empty chair which is kind of pall to me.

    Others do a memory table with photos of passed loved ones.


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  • MeetTheHamiltons
    Master April 2017
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    We will be doing a memory table with pictures of my father and grandparents!

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  • DAK
    Expert May 2016
    DAK ·
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    I carried framed photos in my bouquet.

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  • AnewH
    Super September 2016
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    I am in the same boat. I never met my FMIL. I am always so jealous of the people who are getting a MIL. We are lighting a candle for her during the ceremony. I love the vase full of flowers idea. There are tons of options, you just have to pick what is best for you.

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  • Nonna T
    Master April 2014
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    @Anew, I am a spare monster-in-law for those in need!

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  • OGSue
    Master August 2016
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    I am also in the same boat, FH's mother passed away before we met, and recently my grandmother passed away. We are honouring them by playing their favourite songs during key moments in the ceremony (licence signing and the recessional). This is our not in your face tribute to them.

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  • Mrs. G
    Devoted April 2017
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    The reason we met was because he had to retake a class. He decided religious studies was an easy class and just so happened I was a freshman in that class. He was a junior. We were friends for 4 years before we started dating. He tried to ask me out twice before (but I was seeing someone). I think it was meant to be. He was very close to his mother. His parents are like 20 years older than mine. I've been trying to think of what to do other than a flower for her.

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  • AnewH
    Super September 2016
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    Tina you are simply the best I definitely need one! Thanks for the smiles Smiley smile

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  • Mrs. G
    Devoted April 2017
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    Christina, your wedding is the day after mine!

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  • E
    Just Said Yes September 2016
    Emily ·
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    These are beautiful ideas...I know we are doing pictures, but I'm still deciding what I want to do to honor my dad.

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  • Kristen
    Super September 2017
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    Include her in the programs, have a memory table, reserve an empty seat for her (symbolically).

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  • Elizabeth
    Just Said Yes August 2016
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    Both of my fiance's parents are deceased. We had a picture of them in formal wear printed on canvas which will sit in their seats on the front row. Also we have family that will walk down right before the wedding party that will lay a flower on their chairs in front of the pictures. Then we also did a memory table that will include our grandparents and a picture of his parents on their wedding day. We will move the canvas pictures to the memory table after the ceremony. His sister will do the dance with him and she picked a song that will be dedicated to their parents. It can be tough to plan a wedding with parents that have passed away to early in life, but we tried to put a lot of thought into it. I hope some of these idea's help.

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  • Katiegirl
    Savvy September 2017
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    I'm going to honor all our past grandparents with a small table with small photos and a beautiful candle lit in their honor.

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  • Allison
    Super May 2017
    Allison ·
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    I'm thinking of doing a memory table for FH's father who passed along with his grandparents, and my aunt and uncle. My friend did this at her wedding and it was very sweet

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  • Allison
    Super May 2017
    Allison ·
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    This was from my friend's wedding


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  • Samantha
    Savvy June 2017
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    Same boat!!! He was her only child and they were best friends. What I plan to do for him for her is make a pin with her picture and a Tiffany blue ribbon to go on his dress blues and the same for my uncle but baby rose yellow ribbon and have a candle or a moment of silence for those that couldn't make share our big day with us. Plus her seat will be reserved and both ceremony and reception. I think that anything you decide to do will mean the world to your future hubby hope it helps.

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  • Shropshire2Davis
    VIP June 2019
    Shropshire2Davis ·
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    I'm still trying to figure out something to do for my mom who passed away a couple years ago myself, I was thinking of having a table with a photo of her and a bouquet of flowers with a seat that says "reserved" I'm not sure yet but it's my idea...

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  • FutureDonnellie
    Dedicated August 2018
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    I am taking the pictures of my deceased grandpa and grandma and grandfather and sitting their picture frame on a chair as like their apart of the ceremony, and then their pictures with sit on a table near our cake with candles and flowers. To honor them, and to remember them. <3

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  • R
    Savvy August 2017
    Ron2cliff ·
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    My FH and I are honoring our deceased grandparents by putting a small locket with their pictures in my bouquet and his boutonniere and since his grandmother just recently passed in May were also thinking about decorating a chair and placing her picture there for the ceremony.

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  • R
    Savvy August 2017
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    @FutureDonnellie we have the same wedding date

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