Honoring Living Grandparents

Before my grandmother passed away we had discussed having her as our flower girl (she adored the idea)- maybe something like that would work for you?

Have her be escorted down the aisle by an usher? That's what I did with my grandmother.

Tara, I'm sorry for your loss. My grandmother probably wouldn't want to be a flower girl.

Fall Bride, I like that idea. I would love to give her a bouquet. She is actually making our bouquets, as she is a florists, so maybe I could surprise her with one.

GymRat, that was sweet of you, I think I'll add her the processional.

You can have your officiant recognize her after greeting all your guests. Something like, "We extend a special welcome to (bride's) grandmother, ________. We are honored that the matriarch of the family is with us today and thus bestows her blessing upon this union." Or words to that effect. Best wishes!

You could do a dance with her later on in the reception. The DJ could announce that you'd like to dedicate a song to her and you two could dance together. I wouldn't clear the floor for this, just dance along with all your guests but still sharing a special moment.

ETA you could also ask to wear some of her jewelry as your something borrowed, wrap some of her wedding dress around your bouquet, see if you can use her veil, cake cutter, etc in your wedding

Maybe both your grandparents could walk you down the aisle