Honoring friends who aren’t in bridal party

I agree with Gen. I wouldn't have another spotlight dance where guests have to watch other people dance. Another option would be if they want to buy something to wear to the wedding you could offer to go shopping with them. This is only if they already plan on getting something new to wear.

Maybe something like a necklace or something for them to wear that day, or just include them in the events beforehand like the shower(s) and bach party? I don't think making a spectacle of it on the day of is a good idea just because it would be overwhelming for the guests who're already sitting through the first dance, parents dance, and speeches, if you're having any of those.

I wouldn't do anything. The dance would be really uncomfortable. It seems like you feel guilty about it I can understand wanting to do something... but you have to ask yourself: are you doing it for them? Or for you? (to feel less guilty). Just invite them to your shower and bachelorette parties as per usual and that will suffice! I don't think there's many groups of friends that large who would expect to ALL get asked to be bridesmaids. It's unrealistic. Don't stress too much.

I also agree with Gen!! The best way to include them is to invite them to all the pre-wedding parties like your shower and bach party!

I also made sure to get a few different group pictures at my wedding - one with my big group of close girlfriends, one with my WeddingWire co-workers, and a group photo with everyone who went to college with us. I think that would be a good idea for you!