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Del
Master November 2017

Honoring foster parents

Del, on March 8, 2017 at 9:52 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 9

I don't know if I've mentioned this here before, but my FILs have been very active in the foster care system for most of their adult lives. Both my FH and his sister were adopted from the foster care system (him at eighteen months and her at age three) and they are still an emergency home for infants, which means that if a baby is taken into care unexpectedly and need an immediate safe and loving place until a long-term home can be found, my FILs provide that.

We really want to do something to honor their commitment and service in the wedding. I'm going to pin a blue "foster awareness" ribbon on my bouquet, and FH is writing them a beautiful letter to give them with our parent gifts. Does anyone else have any suggestions for a way to say thanks?

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Latest activity by BlushingBride, on March 9, 2017 at 8:14 PM
  • Kristin
    Master January 2034
    Kristin ·
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    Give me some time to think about it, but I do want to say thank you to them. I work with a lot of foster parents, and they are some of the most amazing people. I would LOVE to be a foster parent but we dont have the set up for it right now. I'll try and think of another way to honor them but both your ideas sound wonderful.

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  • RealLindseyO
    Master October 2017
    RealLindseyO ·
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    I don't have any suggestions but my MOH and her husband have adopted two children out of foster care and have fostered three more in the last three years! FH and I will be starting pre-service classes shortly after the wedding. I'm totally in awe of the commitment and love that foster parents are capable of! Give them a big thank you for me!

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  • Laura
    Devoted August 2018
    Laura ·
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    As your favors do a donation in your guests names and then print a card for each guest to explain the donation and what they have done over the years. I think that would be a beautiful way to show your love and appreciation to their work and also educate your guests and maybe they will be moved to do something as well.

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  • J. Clo
    Master May 2018
    J. Clo ·
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    Sorry - I have no additional ideas but I love the idea of the letter and the blue pin. If FH is reading the letter aloud there will not be dry eye in the room. It is a commitment.

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  • Del
    Master November 2017
    Del ·
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    We don't believe in talking about donations publicly, but one idea that we had was to frame a copy of FH's adoption certificate and put it on the "memories" table (along with childhood pictures, photos of us as we started dating, etc.) Beside it, we can put some brochures on how to make donations, begin the experience of fostering, etc. Most people invited are pretty tuned in; FH's family is obviously aware and my mother is lawyer often acts as a court-appointed representative for children in care. But it still might be useful if someone decides they want to do more at some point. Would that be okay, or is it too pushy?

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  • RealLindseyO
    Master October 2017
    RealLindseyO ·
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    Ehhh the brochures would be a little much IMO.

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  • Del
    Master November 2017
    Del ·
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    Yeah, I'm on the fence too...

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  • Del
    Master November 2017
    Del ·
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    I think you ladies are right. No brochures.

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  • BlushingBride
    VIP October 2017
    BlushingBride ·
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    Love that idea and I'm sure they will too.

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