Honorifics for Save the Dates?

We skipped honorifics on both. we were trying to decide what to do, and then realized, hey we just got an invitation for our friend's wedding, what did she do? and then promptly realized we had thrown the envelope in the recycling bin without noticing whether there were honorifics or not. (we dug it out... and she had used them.)

the moral of the story is... do whatever you want, no one will probably notice.

Thanks! "no one will probably notice" haha I've kept 2 wedding invitation envelopes and I also had to fish for them to see what they had done. I don't know how I still have the std envelope for one of them. All the others were thrown out.

Nope. We just used first and last names. Honorifics for the formal invites like you said though!

We used honorifics. But then there are people in our families that would be horrified to receive mail not addressed "traditionally", so there's that. And in the end it was just easier.

We just used first and last name for our STDs since it's less formal. Will probably go the more formal route for invites though like you mentioned.

Sorry but what are honorifics??

Just looks it up. We didn't need to. We don't know any doctors or lawyers. I guess if I did know any I may have depending on how much room I had on the envelope.

So if you got an std with honorifics. Ms. Your name Last name and Mr/Ms FS First name Last name? Would you think it's ridiculous? Would you not even notice?

@Erin Wood. Dr. Ms. Mrs. Mr. ect.

Side note - my cousin put Future Mr and Mrs (FH's Last Name) on our invite and it made me so happy! Just an idea for anyone who is inviting any engaged couples

Cute!!! @Spaghetti

Good call @Christy

Oh!! I didn't consider Mr and Mrs. Lol! Yes we did everything formally. We did Mr. & Mrs. James Brown, etc. on STD and invites.

We did it formally for everything even though I personally cringe at the thought of being mrs. FH full name forever. Like none of my prior identity will exist. In the end it was easiest.

@FutureFuji yes. I know FH's stepsister as Jane Smith. She got married recently and when FFIL gave me her address he wrote Mr. and Mrs. John Doe. And I recognized her husband's name and it freaked me out a bit. I knew she was taking his name but I wasn't prepared to not even see her first name. Growing up my family doesn't do formal etiquette so a lot of this is new to me. Thankfully the people I know this would upset didn't change their name so I feel ok haha.

BTW I obviously changed their names lol.

@Spaghetti exciting! We got an invite to FH's cousin's wedding addressed to FH's name and guest... we've been engaged 7 months and live together... -_-

@Maria I don't think it would look weird to address STDs formally

I doubt people would notice but I would go for no honorifics unless you call that person by a specific honorific in conversation with them.

Thanks Brianna and Lucy. I'm going to use honorifics because there doesn't seem to be a reason that they would be offended by it unless I use them incorrectly. There are some family members on FH's side that I don't know personally so I don't have conversations with them. More reason to use honorifics I think. And like others said, most won't even notice. Thanks everyone!

I addressed it all formally, but that is because I like the idea of it being more special than junk mail or bills lol

We addressed our STDs formally because as someone else said it was easier to create one spreadsheet that we can use for all the events.