Honorary mothers

I didn't do programs but I did have my Aunt walk down the aisle behind my Mom. I got her a corsage and she gave a speech.

I am having a Catholic ceremony and will be having some people close to me do special roles such as a reading and bringing down the gifts.

I should also add that these are older ladies that don't really like being in the spotlight as far as giving speeches or having special seats. That's why I'm considering the programs. That way everyone knows they mean alot to me but it doesn't put them in an awkward position

Get her a corsage, if you're doing them for the other parents.

I wouldn't call them "moms" in the program. I'd get them wrist coursages and refer to them by another title, like "Special Ladies" (that sounds terrible, but my creativity is sapped) or mention them in a special thank you note in the programs.

You could say something like "honorary family of the bride," without mentioning their gender, or you could say "a special thank-you to X, Y, and Z for their support over the years."

No, don't call them moms....

In the program,

"We all have people who have chosen us to become their family, and the bride wants to thanks X X X for all their support and inspiration through the years. " And give them a little present privately.