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Just Said Yes October 2019

Honeymoon

Amy, on June 9, 2019 at 12:14 PM Posted in Honeymoon 0 12
Hi everyone! I just had my bridal shower and I loved it. I got great gifts and among them were some lingerie. I know it's usually expected of the bride to dress up for the wedding night and for the honeymoon. But I think the groom should to. I'm not saying he needs to wear anything crazy, but something sexy and kinky can spice up things in the bedroom. I'm thinking of getting him a men's thong (not those elephant thongs lol), but an actual nice simple men's thong that can be of groom style. But I want to know what the ladies and guys think. Has anyone else done this? Or would they consider it? Honest responses tho! Let me know thanks!

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Latest activity by Angerra, on June 11, 2019 at 7:58 AM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    Your groom isn't making you wear the lingerie that other people gifted you. I wouldn't put that expectation on him either. If he wants to put forth effort or wear something like that to impress you, then he can, but that's on him.

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I think it would be kind of cute and funny if you did that ahah. I know if I did that to my groom he would get a kick out of it
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  • Formerbride
    VIP June 2019
    Formerbride ·
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    I can't even imagine what my FHs reaction would be if I gave him a thong. 😂😂 if he's in to that kind of thing, go for it. Just don't be upset if he doesn't want to wear it.
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  • A
    Just Said Yes October 2019
    Amy ·
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    Who says he doesn't want me to Smiley winking I know he'll appreciate it lol
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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    If you already know he'll appreciate it, why did you ask for advice? I'd say if he wanted to wear a thong, he would probably buy one.

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    Just Said Yes October 2019
    Amy ·
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    "Your groom isn't making you wear the lingerie that other people gifted you." I'm replying to what you said. I'm not asking for mr I'm asking about getting something for him.
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  • CourtneyBrittain
    Master August 2019
    CourtneyBrittain ·
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    I think if you think he’d appreciate it I say go for it! FH and I talked about it; he may end up getting something from me too haha
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    Dedicated June 2022
    beee ·
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    Wearing lingerie or not wearing wearing lingerie is a personal choice. A person should only wear it if he/she feels comfortable, not because they feel they have to. You don’t have to wear lingerie just because it was gifted to you or because you think it is expected of you. Your FH doesn’t have to wear it just because you do. If you think he would enjoy it you could certainly buy some but I ultimately it’s his decision. Your decision to wear lingerie should have no bearing on his decision to wear a thong.
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  • Btbride
    Super August 2019
    Btbride ·
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    I’d suggest talking to him and seeing if he’s comfortable with the idea before buying it. If he is, then go crazy!
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  • Futuremrs
    Devoted July 2019
    Futuremrs ·
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    My FH is always disappointed that men have so few options for sexy underwear. He's got some "date night" underwear, but he's underwhelmed by the selection. He loves lingerie nights. He likes them so much that I have to ration them so they don't lose their wow factor. He would love it if I got him a wedding night thong. But every guy is different. As pp have said, you can't force him to wear it, but if you think he'd like it, go for it.

    NB: I can't believe that I haven't thought about this for my FH! I've been pondering what I'm going to wear that night, but getting him something slipped my mind. Thanks for this post. Wedding night shopping, here I come! Lol
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  • Ashley
    Dedicated February 2020
    Ashley ·
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    If I asked my FH to put on a thong he would die of laughter and think I was joking. It just depends on what you think he’s open too.
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  • Angerra
    VIP August 2019
    Angerra ·
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    My fiance would not dare put on a thong lol.
    My grandmother got me a couple pieces of lingerie that I really like and I bought myself some more recently. I showed it to him; which prompted him to try to find something for himself to wear and he was not excited about the choices, or lack there of.

    I would suggest to shop with him or buy something that he'll actually enjoy and be comfortable in. If you think he'll like the thong, then go for it!
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