We are visiting FH sister and bro in law for Christmas...and bro IL asked if we would want to go on cruise and FH said yes, he did ask me too, and I said yes....but now it took an odd turn, it's our honeymoon, not just a random vacation. AND bro is really taking over the planning... FH is very social and I know he loves t he idea of traveling with his sister and her hubs but..... I dunno. It's 2nd marriage for us both, and we're not kids. Am I making too much of this? I don't hate the idea...just he's very take charge and t that worries me.