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Amanda
Just Said Yes October 2019

Honeyfund??? Thoughts

Amanda, on June 4, 2019 at 3:23 PM Posted in Honeymoon 0 8

My FH and I have already booked and paid for our honeymoon. We are getting married October 12, 2019. This will be our 3rd marriage for both of us so we aren't doing a big wedding and we have been living together for the last year and half so we don't need anything with regards to anything on a registry. Is it to tacky to ask for cash in lieu of gifts or donations towards spending money for our honeymoon? Thoughts???

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Latest activity by Nemo, on June 5, 2019 at 10:23 AM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    If you don't want gifts, skip the registry. No one needs to be told that cash is a good gift, they already know that. Cash registries also take a portion of each gift.

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  • Mcskipper
    Master July 2018
    Mcskipper ·
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    Tacky to ASK is the key phrase. Just don’t have a registry. People who want to give you something will likely give you money anyway.
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  • Mandi
    Master October 2020
    Mandi ·
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    A friend got married and registered on Zola for their honeymoon. I hadn't heard of it, and thought it was an interesting concept. I may have been the only one. I checked it out recently (8 months after their wedding) and they had only recieved $75 thru the site.
    So I'm thinking just not having a registry might work better.
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  • Mandi
    VIP May 2016
    Mandi ·
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    Being completely honest here, yes it is tacky to ask for money. Plus, adults can figure out how to put cash or a check in a card. Just have a small registry (or no registry) and people will get the hint. You can let family/wedding party help spread the word for those who don't get the hint and ask.

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  • MOB So Cal
    January 2019
    MOB So Cal ·
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    Agree with the above. If you do not want physical gifts, I would not register, and I definitely would not ask for or suggest a cash gift. I think to do so might definitely be seen as "tacky" by some. Those who want to give you something will.

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I have a honeymoon fund on Zola and I can say that I have gotten some money. however I will say when I itemized my honeymoon fund into activities where people know what it's for and how much it costs, they're more inclined to give. Such as $50 for zipline adventure - they're more inclined to purchase that for you than just give an arbitrary amount.
    But I will admit if you don't go with it, it's ok too. What other members here said is kind of right because although I got some money on it, I think people would be more inclined to directly give to you.
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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
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    I personally think it is. In my opinion, people will gift cash if there is no registry most the time.

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  • Nemo
    Master August 2018
    Nemo ·
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    I personally think it is tacky, and I've never contributed to one. I'd just gift you cash at the wedding instead. Everyone knows that everyone can use cash, so I find those funds unnecessary.

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