I know this has been asked, but I can't find anything recent. My fiance and I have lived together for several years and we bought a house in 2010 that needs improvements. We originally registered at Macy's (didn't tell anyone yet) but we realized we would LOVE to get gift cards for home depot or something (I heard their registry sucks) because those things are definitely more urgent than blenders and towels.
I would never ASK for cash or gift cards or "paper gifts." I was thinking of removing most or all of our Macy's registry stuff, but is THAT rude? Like not having a registry for people who would prefer to not give cash/cards? If you have no registry and mention the home depot thing to certain people, will that be enough or will you end up with a bunch of duplicate items for the home?