So, we are having our wedding and reception at my family's farm. It has a lot of meaning to me and it is going to cut down on costs a lot! (I think) we are wanting to do a hog roast with sides without hiring out. however, the more I read about it the more it sounds like I will have a lot of family and friends working instead of having fun. are there any suggestions besides, hire out? I am starting to think that is our only option