History repeats itself for us

I'm marrying my ex husband. Long story made short. Our first time we rushed into getting married, had problems and 7 years & 2 kids later we went our separate ways. Fast forward to 13 years later we got back together and things are much better than the first time around.



We aren't fancy, high end people. We are very laid back. Our first wedding was in my grandparents backyard with a potluck reception. No music, no dancing.
This time we are going to get married at a park (possibly rose garden) and have the reception at my grandparents backyard. But this time we will have music and dancing and a few other things (details to come later).
Backyard reception reason: I have family that visits 1 weekend every summer and on that Saturday we always go on a big family outing and then end the day at my grandparents for a big family BBQ. So I've talked with my FH and we agreed to keep that part the same.