Hi everyone!
I was wondering if anyone had any tips for serving alcohol for when one side of the family doesn't drink? I have seen some other posts discussing this, but our situation is a little different.
Some backstory...I was raised Southern Baptist and my dad and his whole family do not drink. They absolutely do not drink and do not tolerate alcohol (like won't be around someone drinking/go to an event where there is drinking). My mom (parents are divorced) however, does drink and has no issue with being around alcohol. My future in-laws drink and their family does at well.
The venue that we chose is all-inclusive and includes a 4 hour bar package. The package is only for beer and wine, and would be for a cocktail hour while we take family photos, and then finish into serving dinner. My fiancé and I really do want at least beer and wine, plus a champagne toast, at our wedding and it is already included so it is technically already part of the venue/paid for.
However, I am afraid that members of my family (on my dad's side, including my dad) will get mad about the alcohol at the reception and say nasty things to me. I'm torn because if I tell them beforehand that there will be alcohol there, I risk getting an ear full all the way until my wedding and then, potentially them not even coming to the wedding. But, if I don't tell them beforehand, they will likely leave my wedding and cause a scene when they see alcohol.
I know it is my wedding and should be what I want (since I am paying for it), but I also don't want to have to deal with the annoying and emotionally manipulative behavior that they like to use to make me feel bad about my decisions. Thank you in advance for any advice, and I apologize for the long ramble!