my groom wants to have a blue theme but i want to have a turquoise theme and that CLASHES! it just cannot be. i have picked out my gown and tiara and all the jewels and bedazzled place mats are not only not turquoise but not BLUE- THEY ARE PURPLEE! and then to top all that stuff off my dog jut died and he was the ring bearer and my uncle the priest just got murdered by my future sister in law, who is now acing ten years in federal prison. WHAT SHOULD I DO???