Sorry in advance for this long post, hope it makes sense lol but I’m Wondering how involved you’re letting you future mother in law be in wedding planning. My future M-I-L is very opinionated (to the point of being rude when she doesn’t agree with something) and my Mom and her don’t get along either. My fiancé doesn’t have the “closest” relationship with his parent's. It’s just how it’s always been, he’s really close with his brother and sister-in-law though. My fiancé’s sister in law and I get along really well and she feels the same way I do about our M-I-L, so it’s great to have her to talk too. But she said she just asked her to make the baskets for the restrooms for the wedding, but I remembered when they were planning their wedding she was really upset/hurt that she wasn’t more included. So I feel really bad to just ask her to do that, but truthfully we’re just total opposites, and not that close either. But she texted my fiancé today asking if she could come over to talk (we weren’t home) to discuss wedding planning and see if there was anything she could do. Anyone have suggestions on what I could include her in without having her step on our toes?!