Ok, about a month ago, I was going to change my wedding date to late September 2020 or early October 2020 because it is financially easier for my FH and I. But a friend of mine got highly upset because she said "October is her month and I can't just take her month." Then when she heard about me going with a light shade of purple, she again got highly upset because as she put it that is her color and I am stealing her ideas. Her wedding is this Halloween, her colors are black, very dark purple and silver, theme is Nightmare Before Halloween. She had strict guidelines for the bridesmaid dresses (long, black with sleeves) and we had to have the dress by September 1st.
I told her in August that I was ordering the dress at the end of August because I had an unexpected car problem (alternator went bad in my car), the part was just under $200. She agreed that my car had to get back on the road before my children went back to school. She also said that it was fine that I was ordering my dress then. I sent her a picture of the dress that I was looking at (long, black with sleeves) it is a wrap dress. She said it was perfect. I ordered it right after her comment and I told her it would be home in 2 days. She said great and that as long it was there before she had a meeting with the bridal party on Sept. 8th.
She sends me a text this morning that because I didn't get the dress in time for the meeting (which I did), and I wasn't helping her at all with her wedding (I was giving ideas and I told her I would help) and I was too wrapped in planning my own wedding. That she was ending the friendship. She also said that I never called her (when I did, she didn't answer). She called me selfish. I am not upset that she ended the friendship. I didn't cry like I have before. She knows that I am a office manager for my FH, I just started up my own business, I'm always busy with everyday things.
Should I alter the dress to make it more my style? I paid $35 on Amazon for the dress. I don't like sleeves and I am not into long dresses.
I am tempted to change my wedding from August 2020 to the late September 2020 or early October 2020. Is that crazy that I want to?
I think I am just confused. I've been in a decent mood today. My son had a problem at school (not a bad problem but emotional. He has high anxiety), so I've been trying to help him.
