Hey guys, i’m looking for some advice.
so i’m currently engaged, and my fiancé is bootcamp. because of this, i can’t just call him and ask his opinion on certain things. Anyways, we’re in the early stages, and had planned to have the wedding august of this year. I’ve found the perfect venue and i’m in love. but now he’s saying it may be too risky to pay for a venue and a whole wedding, because he doesn’t know right now if the dates we picked will work. We want to get married as soon as he’s finished with school, so waiting another year to figure out a date isn’t really an option. at this point i’m so discouraged, i don’t really know what to do, and i really would like to not go to the court house and then have a wedding at a later date. basically he’ll have 2 weeks notice of a date he can come home, and i’m just supposed to have a wedding planned in this amount of time. So, if anyone has any tips on a backyard type wedding /reception or any advice that would be amazing. we’re also very new to the military world so anyone with any knowledge in that department would also be great!