Help!!!

I’m so sorry for your loss!

I answered to a similar question in another discussion so I’m going to copy that response so you can see it.

Both of my parents are deceased and even though it isn’t a recent loss I understand what you’re going through. What has helped me get through all the wedding planning is figuring out how to subtly acknowledge my parents at the reception. I plan to weave a large, yarn wall tapestry and hang it up in the reception space. I’ll print out a short note explaining the tribute to my parents and how they have impacted my life etc. I believe the process of creating the tapestry and writing out my feelings will provide some healing as those emotions inevitably come out. Maybe you can find some way to commemorate your loved one, whether it be a bouquet of flowers, a candle lit in their memory, or a donation to a charity in their name. I’ve heard some people like to leave a chair empty for their lost loved one, post their picture somewhere at the wedding, or mention them in the programs. Choose something that feels right to you and helps you to feel happier while planning.

How do you feel about walking down the isle? Do you have a plan to be escorted by anyone or go solo? That’s been a big question for me as well as the father/daughter dance. I think I might be opting out for doing one all together but I’ve seen where the bride can play a special song and leave the floor open for any men who want to briefly share in a dance with her in her fathers memory. Personally I love this idea but I don’t want to be super emotional because of it.

You can have a candle lit and his picture at your sweetheart table. I love the idea of leaving a chair open for him during your ceremony.

First dance I'm kinda at a loss. I don't have a relationship with my father, so I am probably just going to sit that one out.