Help with Wording

My fiance and I are getting married in October 2023. It is both of ours second marriage. About 36 family and close friends are invited. We rented a large house for five nights at the beach (which is about four hours from home) for the ceremony and accommodations. The house has 9 rooms but are made for multiple people to stay in each room. It is optional for guest to stay with us since that may be awkward for some people. How do we word all of this on our website? Do we say 1.) If you choose to stay at the house it is a certain amount a night per person? 2.) Just ask for donations to pay for accommodations if you stay? 3.) Don't ask for money at all? We have paid for house, so the option to pay the venue is out. They will need to pay us. 4.) Since this is our second marriage, we do not need any material gifts. Should we just say ask for cash gifts - which I think is weird, too. HELP!!!