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Just Said Yes February 2019

Help selecting a venue!

Christine, on January 23, 2020 at 10:39 PM Posted in Planning 0 13
Hi all! I am having issue committing to a venue. Basically, I am in between two completely different locations, one is a rustic, woodsy, garden while the other is of the city skyline on a rooftop with a modern hall.


Garden/rustic location is a city park with a hall. I would have to get vendors for the decor, food, etc. The place is nice and can be decorated very nicely but can also look tacky very quickly. As I’ve seen pics of other people’s weddings. So decor is very important to me.
The city/rooftop skyline includes tables, set up breakdown, food, cake, drinks, ceremony. And frankly, It’s more of the look that I was hoping for.
Note- we are paying for our own wedding, which is small of about 45-50 people and we are on a budget. However, when I tallyed up everything they would come out to be roughly the same price. Since I would have to do everything with the park, I can go with a local restaurant for food and they only allow beer and wine so I can get that myself and it’ll be cheaper. Which opens up a budget for a decorator/planner. Because of this, it’ll even allow us to add a few more guests we wanted to invite but didn’t quite make the cut. Also, the garden venue would also open up the budget for other perks like photobooth, maybe even a violinist. With the rooftop, I will just have to worry about getting a DJ and getting my own center pieces. Our budget would probably not allow for more perks with the rooftop venue.

But I can’t decide which one to go with. This whole process of planning a wedding is very overwhelming and because we are paying for our own wedding and on a budget it doesn’t help much. Help selecting a venue! 1Help selecting a venue! 2Help selecting a venue! 3
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Latest activity by Shaina, on January 24, 2020 at 4:16 PM
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    VIP September 2020
    Neeva ·
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    Second one. It will be less stress and more in line with your vision it sounds like

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  • Chrysta
    Master November 2022
    Chrysta ·
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    Personally, I would choose the rooftop venue. And I say this for several reasons. The first, and probably most important, is the fact that you said that was the venue you like the most and most fit the aesthetic of what you want your wedding to be. If that is what you were envisioning, then the rustic venue I think would always be a let down. The other reason is the fact that the rooftop venue is basically all inclusive. This would save you soooooooo much time & stress in the planning process! And I know on paper it seems like you may save a little money with the rustic venue, but you would be surprised how quickly hidden fees add up with each vendor! You may not actually save that much (if any at all) once everything is added up. And the 3rd reason is that the rooftop venue includes setting up and tearing down everything. Who wants to have to clean up/teardown after a long night of celebrating?? Plus, the rooftop venue is just absolutely beautiful! Your pictures would be gorgeous!
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  • Mandi
    Master October 2020
    Mandi ·
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    I just looked at venues. I'd die for the second one. It is amazing.
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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
    Cyndy ·
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    I would go with the rooftop. You said you liked that most but it also will be so much less stressful.
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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    It seems like you want the rooftop one more and it fits your vision!
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  • Sexypoodle
    Master October 2021
    Sexypoodle ·
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    There’s no comparison. The rooftop for sure!! In addition it to being what you envisioned, it’s much classier, cleaner and will be less of a hassle in the long run in comparison to the woodsy location.
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  • Fleur
    October 2020
    Fleur ·
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    Rooftop 100%.
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  • Ashley
    Devoted July 2021
    Ashley ·
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    So my personal preference is rustic, always has been. But looking at the pictures of your options I have to vote for the rooftop. That is such an amazing looking venue and I can just imagine how stunning the views would be! It also sounds like that is what you are really going for.

    My fiance and I are 100% paying for our own wedding as well, so I completely understand the whole budget aspect and trying to save money where you can. It sounds like you could save a little bit by going with the rustic venue. That being said, if you have your heart set on the rooftop, I would go with that one. If it were me, I would most likely regret not going with what I really wanted just to save a little bit of money. The rooftop also sounds like it would be less stressful, which is always a plus. Good luck!

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  • Meghan
    Master October 2019
    Meghan ·
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    The rooftop! I’m typically a more rustic wedding girl, but that 3rd picture is Smiley love !! Plus, that venue sounds like much less of a hassle.

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  • Sabrina
    Devoted April 2020
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    Roof top all the way...it does not need much in way of decor....less stress for you.

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  • Jodie
    Expert August 2020
    Jodie ·
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    I'll be the oddball. I prefer the rustic venue. There are more options that you can do with that space. I think that the rooftop venue is pretty but it seems too "cookie cutter-ish" to me if that makes any sense. The rustic space has more character.

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  • Angel
    Expert August 2020
    Angel ·
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    Rustic all the way! But, that's my opinion and the exact vibe I'm going for. We're having our ceremony in the woods. I just love nature and as Jodie mentioned, more character!

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    Expert October 2020
    Shaina ·
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    The second one for SURE. Sounds like more things are included and you wont have to really worry so much on it looking Tacky

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